What do women want in a man?  If you’re a fella, it’s a good idea to keep the following in mind.  Guys who dance are popular with the ladies. Some men don’t know the secret to successfully socializing with the opposite sex. However, men who dance know when the music comes on, women don’t care about a man’s age, fitness, or money.  They just want to dance with him and feel like Ginger Rogers. Cigarette?

If you’re ready to step up your dating game, become one of the guys who dance.

Think about it. What’s a typical first date like? Drinks or coffee, dinner, maybe a movie. Of course, getting to know someone is important. On the other hand, you might not be getting or giving the whole picture.

But, you’re different. You’re a guy who dances. So, naturally, you head to the dance floor. After all, you’re the leader and she’s the follower. What woman doesn’t want to just go along for the ride once in a while?

“I Am Woman, (Hear Me Roar)” is a song by Helen Reddy that celebrates women’s strength and independence. Nevertheless, she loves it when you take her by the hand and lead her to the dance floor. In your arms, she learns that she has but one job when she’s dancing, and that’s to look good.

After a while, she’s relaxed and having fun. She’s following your lead and starting to flirt a little. Being popular is kinda nice. Surely, this is better than asking a dozen getting-to-know-you questions.

Don’t forget to compliment her dancing and thank her. By doing so you’re improving your chance for another date. You’d like that, wouldn’t you?

“Is this really gonna work?“

Uh, Yesss! If you’re a guy who dances, you will have no shortage of partners. You don’t even have to speak; simply offer your hand and you’re just a few seconds away from making a new friend.

On a side note.

Another benefit of learning how to ballroom dance is, believe it or not, better golf skills. Read about it in this Dance Safari post, “The Secret Weapon to a Stronger Golf Game is Revealed“. It’s a nice little side benefit of learning this important social skill.